Thursday, July 31, 2008

Things go wrong

I was at work when Michelle called me and told me that we needed to go to the doctor.

She was home cleaning our room, when she suddenly felt very sick and layed down on the bed. The flu was going around and Michelle thought that she caught it. She woke up to the kids beating each other up, Tom outside with rock for the driveway, and about a hundred other things all going on at one time. When she back in the house she went to the bathroom and saw some blood. It wasn't a lot, but because our last miscarriage she was concerned.

She called the doctors and they agreed to see her, if only to make her feel better. The doctor gave us that whole "this happens all the time, its probably nothing to worry about. I'm just going to do a quick exam and then we'll all feel better about it."

He started the exam talking about this and that, and then all of sudden he shut up and got serious. He told Michelle not to move. Sure enough the bag of waters was seeping through a bit. The whirlwind started. He quickly had us on the way to Emanuel Hospital to meet a Dr. Jenkins. "Take a wheelchair. Don't walk."

Of course we get to Emanuel and the only wheelchair I could fine was this really uncomfortable basket-looking thing. I tried, but Michelle wanted nothing to do with it and she walked in on her own.

Dr. Jenkins apparently had gone home for the night and we deal with some nice hospitalists. The bags had come out some and they were going over the options with us. Bedrest, a cerclage (where they stitch the cervix together), etc.. Everything wasn't proven to do anything, but they would try whatever we wanted.

Michelle was put in the trendelenburg position where your head is lower than your buttocks. The idea being that the waters might recede with a little gravity. The hospitalist told us that a doctor would be in the morning to discuss our next move.

The night quickly ended and we attempted to go to sleep not knowing what was going to happen.

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

20 Weeks

This article is being written a lot later in our journey, but its important to get down.

Taylor reached 20 weeks on this day!

Up until this point the pregnancy was going really well. Because of our last late miscarriage at 17 weeks, Michelle was finally starting to feel good about this pregnancy. Part of her didn't want to get excited, or get attached to the little girl growing inside her. She was just too afraid that it wouldn't work out again and it would be painful like our son that we lost.

We got past 17 though. Then 18, and then 19. Michelle was feeling good about the pregancy.

We were naive, we were calm, we were happy. Michelle spread rock during the day, as we finally were finally finishing up on the escavation work around the evening. I had a great day at work. Little did we know that it would be the last normal day for a very long time.